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Life - Love - Choices

Judith B. Pinkard

LIFE

Determining my Purpose

To tell you about how my book Broken Pieces was birthed, I will need to tell you a few things about myself. I have always believed that we are here for a reason. We have a purpose. My biggest question was, “Why am I here?” “What is my purpose?" When you read my book you will understand why the answer to this question was important to me.

For years, I believed it was what I was to others: daughter, wife, mother, friend, etc. If that was all there was, that would be enough, especially if I did all of those things well. I've been an undocumented and unpaid adviser, listener, and counselor most of my life, could that be it? I enjoy sharing and having others share with me. However, as I got older I thought there has to be more. While reading a devotional it asked this question, “What is your purpose?” What got my attention was the next question: “How do you determine your purpose?”

How to determine your purpose:

The following is based on information I gathered from several articles on the internet and from my devotional:

  • What do you love to do and what comes easily for you? Talk to others and share my experiences.

  • What are two qualities you most enjoy expressing to the world? Love and hope

  • What are two ways you express these qualities? Caring and sharing

  • Listen to what other people appreciate about you. I have been told by friends that they wish they could express themselves with words as I do.

  • What have several people mentioned that you would be good at or need to do? I have been told since I was in elementary school that I should write a book.

  • Can you turn hurts into healing for others? I feel my story brings light to the world and hope to others.

Answering these questions made it very clear that I needed to put my story out in the world to all people, not just those close to me. I purposely used the word “birthed” earlier because this was not an easy project. It was very difficult and painful, as in childbirth. I visited places from my past that I didn't want to. I had to feel the emotions of each character. These two things took an emotional toll, but I feel Broken Pieces was the first part of “My Purpose” and “Why I am here”.

What are your beliefs on this subject? They may differ from mine. I'd like to hear your comments.

 
 
 
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